Ron Rash For Lunch
Saludos to Professor Dean, et al.
Per your request via email:
Here’s the deal on Rash: His first book of poems? Eureka Mill? It’s partially about my mother’s family’s textile company.
I hope you don’t feel deceived, Dean; I preferred never to talk about mom’s kin because it was complicated and got me pegged in all kinds of ways that I would have resented in NC. But there it is. For the record, despite the acuity of Rash’s book and the historical record, my family was a lot “better” than its contemporaries….
Funny story: I was in Columbia, SC with my mother in 2003 after second
year at UNCW, just after Rash’s first novel came out. My aunt and my
grandmother and my mother and I took Ron Rash out to freaking lunch.
Seriously. It was funny because I think he was expecting a bunch of
white gloved debutantes sniffing at him petulantly over crab salad and
my grandmother was wearing her bandana from the barn that morning and
my aunt was driving a Dodge van with two huge, slobbery mongrels and we
all climbed in and I looked at him apologetically as my aunt said, “so,
Ron, you know this is the last car ride of your life, right?”
RR was very cool. We hit it off, especially being the only ones sucking down beer at an early lunch in Columbia, both trying to dull our respective discomfort. It worked and we talked at length about the south and writing and he was certainly a straight-forward dude who I’d have liked to spend more time with, especially away from the daunting presence of my grandmother.
His poems were not flattering of my family, but neither were they an attack. They were about the reality of life in a mill village and my great grandfather does appear in some of them. Not vicious at all, but not afraid to decry through imagery and narrative the horrendous crap poor people went through.
My mom bought like 40 copies.
(Bio, per the eminent professor Dean’s request: With a few strokes of absurd luck, I currently live in Barcelona with my wife, Lili. My work lives at: Rivendell, Third Coast, Cimarron Review, Pinyon, Whetstone, Alligator Juniper, Pedestal Magazine, the Seattle Review, Wandering Army (web), The Tulane Review, Blood Lotus (web), and Men Speak Out (Anthology, Routledge Press). I was nominated for a Pushcart Prize and won a nonfiction contest at Alligator Juniper. I have a story in pre-production at Westbound Films. A book of essays, Falling Room, is out from University of Nebraska Press, American Lives Series. A memoir, A Cold and Broken Hallelujah, and a novel, Leaving Lara, are about to blow up according to secret agent man.)








